A new Study of the Federal Institute for Population Research (BiB) found out that men with children spend more time in the office than men without children. The study was based on the household survey figures “micro-census 2010”.
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Career and Family – Not only a Women’s Matter
Wednesday, January 11th, 2012 by Astrid BostenInternational Ambassadors
Changing Role of Men and Women
Wednesday, May 25th, 2011 by Lena RumjancevaSeveral women in top management, female networking group “Women in Leadership”, WoMen’s Networking Day at Henkel’s headquarters in Düsseldorf… All of these are evidence that women have top priority at Henkel.
We live in a constantly changing world. In the past the role of men and women were considerably separated from each other. Women took the domination in the family, their major roles were looking after the children and the slave doing housework. They were always believed to be weaker than men; they were not allowed to study and have a job. Men earned money and in this way maintained their family. Their role was appreciated in larger measure.
As a matter of fact the situation has changed. In the 21st century the sharp difference between the roles of genders seem to disappear or wear off at least. The principle of suffragette or feminist movements was that women are victimized, subordinated against men in any field of the life. They wanted equality at home, at work, in politics so in any field of their life?
At this point in time not only the roles but also the different features of genders have changed.
Women can be discriminated at the workplace neither. If a woman applicant is suitable for a job, she is by law entitled to have it. Because of this fact there are more and more families in which it is the woman who earns more money. Wives build a career, maintain their family financially.
Is it normal? Can men of our world take over the responsibilities and tasks which were original attributed to women? Stay home with the baby, get the maternity benefit, bring up the children, and do the housework? Meanwhile wives drive their company car, tear with their briefcase, make telephone calls all day long, do businesses and get home to their family late afternoon.
Can women do their best at their workplace and still have energy for men and children as well? And is it good for the children that it is the ‘stronger gender’ who brings them up?
To answer these questions let’s see one of the numerous example at Henkel CEE:
What is your position at Henkel?
I am a MC2B manager, Excom member, having country responsibilities for a functional area.
Big responsibility, you have a lot of work to do, I guess.
It’s true that I’m really busy, have to travel a lot, so have pretty little time for my family.
How can you combine family and work? Do you have children?
I have a 6 years old boy. He was 1 years old when I came back from maternity leave and at that time we had to take a decision with my husband about the future share of roles within the family. I was in higher position and had higher income, so we decided that the best for us and for our child was that we changed the traditional roles.
So how does the job-sharing look like in your family?
My husband stays at home, cooks, does the housework, looks after our son. Meanwhile I guarantee the stable financial background for the family.
And how can you do your’s share at home?
I spend as much time with my family as I can – but this is not too much. We always plan the weekly program together, I tell them when I have to travel or have to stay in the office till late evening during the week. I always spend one afternoon in the week with my son. This gives a bit of freedom to my husband as well. When I promise something to my son I definitely keep it. And he knows it well.How are your weekends?
Very intensive. We organize different programs together, I play a lot with my son and I largely do my share in housework as well.Does this model work?
Yes it does. My son is used to it. This is the natural status for him. My husband does not seem to suffer at all. We really have a balanced – I can also say – happy family life.Thank you for the interview. I wish you good luck for you in your family life and at Henkel as well.
This is an example from real life at Henkel. Dear readers! What is your opinion about such family models?
Women in Business
Family Circle / Im Kreise der Familie
Wednesday, December 22nd, 2010 by Astrid Bosten
Same procedure as every year… when Christmas approaches, usually the entire family gathers around the Christmas tree. Christmas time is the season to realize and reflect the importance of our families.
This has always been the same and will stay the same. The things that changed are the roles people play within their families. May be that dad is cooking the Christmas dinner, while grandfather is just arriving in time from work and mom is writing the last e-mails on her laptop. World upside-down? Not at all. This seems to be the modern way of life.
We wrote many posts about women, female careers, role models, politics and society. But the place where everything comes together as one is our family. If both parents are employed – a dual career couple – then things have to be organized.
In his latest post, Roland Kopp-Wichmann writes about the challenges families face when both parents work. In the end he poses one essential question to make a decision pro or con career: Let’s assume you look back to your life when you are 70 or 80 years old; what are the important things that endure a lifetime? And what are the things that lose importance?
This is the question I had to answer about eight years ago. What is really important in my life? My answer is a clear and definite one: my children and my family are the most important and ever lasting elements in my life! They give sense to my life. Nevertheless I don’t have the feeling that I have to make a decision but that I have to strive, I have to structure and I have to organize more – at least for the next few years.
A friend of mine once told me: “Astrid, you have to make a decision. You can’t have it all!” But I wasn’t convinced. Why do I have to make a decision? It all adds up in an equation if the constant and the variables are chosen right. The constant things in my life are my children and my family. Their well-being, joy and our quality time have priority. But my children as well have their constant things in life: school and nursery school. But the time we spend together is valuable time.
And then there are the variable elements in this equation: these are the hours of work and the place of work. It’s your leisure time and your recovery time. In fact this looks like that: I stand up at 5 a.m. in the morning to work for the first two hours from home. When my children wake up we spend our time until all of us have to go our ways. Not later than 9 a.m. I arrive in the office where I spend the next 6 – 7 hours. In the afternoon I pick up my girls and we spend the afternoon until they fall asleep. Depending on the amount of work I open my laptop once again in the evening.
This lifestyle does not just demand your own flexibility but a flexible employer as well and a line manager who supports you and who values the output of your work not the amount of hours you spend in the office. At Henkel there is the rule of “pay for performance”. Additionally to that the family oriented measures like two company owned nursery schools and trusted working hours gives the opportunity to integrate private and working life.
This is why I would pose Roland Kopp-Wichmann’s question in a slightly different way: Not pro or contra a career decision but pro or contra an employer and environmental circumstances.
For your and your family all the best und lots of quality hours at Christmas time! [DE]
Women in Business
„Too White, too German and too Male“ / „Zu weiß, zu deutsch, zu männlich“
Wednesday, December 15th, 2010 by Astrid Bosten
“Too white, too German, too male” This was Siemens’ CEO Peter Loescher’s statement in 2007 when talking about the top management of German companies as the newspaper “Die Welt” reported lately. For him there was only one logical consequence: Diversity has to become an important topic of the strategic orientation of companies.
According to a recent study „Women Matter 2010. Women at the top of corporations: Making it happen” of McKinsey, Loescher was completely right with his statement. The authors of this study conclude that the advancement of diversity through top management and especially the CEO is the most important tool to advance female careers. However, usage of quotas or objectives holds the last place in this ranking.
In particular important is the middle field of this scale: It seems as leadership seminars especially for women as well as mentoring programs are important tools to bring women into leadership positions. Environment-related topics like flexible work or childcare however seem to be less important.
When we think about the interpretation of these results we come to an interesting conclusion: While the environment is an important factor, a competence problem seems to be the literal reason for the minor representation of women in leadership positions. To make it clear: Most of the women aren’t able to manage! Do you, dear readers, agree with that opinion? [DE]



















