A guest entry by Felix Eichhorn:
Today it’s International Men’s Day: A cheer for the XY pair of chromosomes! A cheer for fast cars! A cheer for barbecue, beer and soccer!
Are you smiling a little bit?
If yes, you should ask yourself why! After all, this was stereotyping of the most disgusting sort and many women would get angry like hell if such black-and-white paintings would be drawn of them. But for men themselves these stereotypes seem to be okay and also women really do like to use them – ask yourself: who wants to marry a softy?
Is it because these stereotypes are positive ones?
Certainly not! Fast cars rush whole families to death, grilled meat might cause cancer, beer makes you fat and soccer … soccer is soccer – competition, aggression, beer – the quadrature of masculinity.
However, for the whole humankind this seems to have a positive connotation. For the whole humankind? No! A small unbending fringe group indeed doesn’t make resistance but is more than unhappy about this picture of men! Yes, your ears are working fine! There are men for whom the maximization of the items mentioned above is not the ideal they are striving for. But what happens if you confess THAT as a man? Your career is definitely over before it even started!
And this is the crux of gender diversity: also men have to preserve in these stereotypes to make a career – regardless if they want or not. Or: Is a man having parental leave still a man?
If the world (of work) shall change, you don’t only have to fight against stereotyping of women – you must also send signals to men that it is accepted and also desired to break the mold! [DE]













